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The Casbah’s 25th Anniversary Wrap Party Dec 21, 2014 The local music venue celebrates the end of its 25th year with live performances from The Burning of Rome, Barbarian and Low Volts. The outdoor rock show will also include food trucks and alcoholic beverages 62 other events on Sunday, December 21
 
Sordid Tales
How can so many people be wrong about something for so long?
There She Goz
Children’s center is training tiny, adorable consumers
Seen Local
City takes a slow and careful approach to the public-art gem
News
Rosemary Summers succeeded in 2013, and her parents want justice
The World Fare
Kearny Mesa Chinese place serves the best potstickers and xiao long bao in town

 

 
 
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Wednesday, May 11,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

Onions

A Mother’s Day story

By Aaryn Belfer
Each year on this day, my mother asked for the exact same thing, which was to be left alone—preferably on our sun deck in her seasons-old threadbare bikini, with a tube of Bain de Soleil, a crossword puzzle and an issue of Vogue on the ground next to her lounger and a Tab poured over ice.
Wednesday, April 27,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

Going home

Planting my feet on familiar but not familiar ground

By Aaryn Belfer
As sad as some moments were, my trip to the homeland was a real-life version of The Twilight Zone, an adventure in the surreal.
Wednesday, April 13,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

Put down the glass

Kate Hudson inadvertently sparks new legislation

By Aaryn Belfer
Late last week, Radar Online posted photos of a pregnant Kate Hudson drinking a glass of what looked like red wine while vacationing with her boyfriend in Argentina.
Wednesday, March 30,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

Spa schma

No mud masks or hot-stone massages for this girl

By Aaryn Belfer
When it comes to self-indulgence, there are three types of people in the world.
Tuesday, March 15,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

The big scare

Is my daughter a wing nut?

By Aaryn Belfer
Any opportunity I offer my child—from walking the dog to taking piano lessons to learning about tsunamis through wild bathtub splashing (who wouldn’t want to do that?!?)—is met with a definitive oh-hell-to-the-N-O! It’s unbearably frustrating to be on the receiving end of such assholery.
Wednesday, March 2,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

Undervalued

The absurdity of teacher as scapegoat

As I write this, the battle between the mouth-breathing governor of Wisconsin and American workers is raging.
Wednesday, February 16,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

The palm pilot

Who needs church when you have an app?

One of my daughter’s schoolmates walked up to me the other day, her blue eyes wide, and apropos of nothing, said, “If you don’t go to church, you can’t know God.”
Wednesday, February 2,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

I love my snowbirds

My in-laws are here to stay

By Aaryn Belfer
Wednesday, January 19,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

Why fight it?

How to grow old with flair and no apologies

Wednesday, January 5,2011
Backwards & in High Heels

Hypothetically speaking

Resolutions that I’m not going to make

 
 
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